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Thursday, March 6, 2014

Difference in Lust and Love

Lust is Meaningful only after Marriage. Sometimes people misunderstand Love as Lust. Especially the teenagers, while at Schools and Colleges. Sometimes even Grown ups can get confused. Thus real maturity is when a person is controlled with Lust, while at Love. Thus Love appears in many different forms, with vast meanings and relationships. But the Lust along with Love is definitely Nourishing, Healthy, and Enjoyable while at Love. Thus Lust without Love is not meaningful. Thus Lust without Love might lead to Pain and Suffering. Similarly, when we Love someone, we must be aware not to include Lust without Marriage. Even just imagining Lust without marriage might lead to various physiological imbalance. For unmarried Lovers, Even while enjoying Lust with Love, It might lead to frustrations. It might create future problems and create insecurity, with a fear of uncertainty. Because it would never be possible to predict the future. Thus Lust is a word only for Married Partners, only within the Partners. Anything else will be a waste of time and energy, in the wrong direction.

It is quite obvious to experience fear when someone feels unsecured, due to desire for lust. When they are afraid of becoming miserable, because of their desire for lust, which can make them slaves of lust. Thus they are afraid of the lust as they experience guilty-conscious. A immature person would imagine lust, leading to shyness and feeling guilt. And would eventually react with anger and frustrations, in order to reject the feeling of lust which is unstable and irritating. Where as a matured person, would react differently.
If an immature person has a desire for lust, this would make them unstable, angry and arrogant. As they are looking at the lust without any compassion and love. They are unable to distinguish between lust and compassion.

On relationships. many times we see Beautiful, good looking, Gorgeous, People, dominating and controlling other individuals using their Power of Lust and Secs.

People also use Lust, using Lustful-imagination, to enjoy, to fulfill, to satisfy themselves to achieve their Lust.
They do it to satisfy and release their body and mind, to release themselves from the stronger grips of Lust, by imagining Lust mentally and emotionally with other persons, in their minds, in order to enjoy the feeling of Lust, to release and relax their body and mind.

People also use Lust to control other people, especially the good looking, beautiful, gorgeous people, who have the ability to seduce others misusing power of Lust. They mentally seduce other persons with Lust, just to dictate and make them their slaves. And when the innocent person approaches them with a desire of relationship, they start acting as if they are aloof and as if, not aware of the situation.

If the other person is not strong enough to understand the psychological Phenomenon, may be controlled by the stronger Lust. Thus the weaker person may destroy his career and future by wasting valuable time and energy thinking and imagining of useless thoughts, leading to useless actions. Instead of utilizing time to create quality proposals. India is critically suffering with such mental and emotional misconception.

Thus it would be very important and appropriate, to express the feeling of Lust, to establish Marriage, and to physically enjoy Lust and secs only after marriage.

Sometimes, the attractive people, who are able to control others with imaginary Lust, try to manipulate, by maintaining silence, in-order to confuse the other person. Thus they never express their universal Love in the form of Brother or Sister, either Mother or Father.

An intelligent person would be wise enough to understand this manipulation. Thus would control and reject such destructive psychological emotions. Lust is actually a vital part of Life, which has evolved the human beings, if not we would have never been born, it is nature and science. Thus Lust is meaningful, effective and appropriate only after marriage and only with the single life-partner. Apart from that Lust must be controlled and must not be mentally imagined which can hurt and create psychological imbalance.

Thus, meditation helps to overcome such negative emotions also, by concentration on breathing and healing body muscles with yoga, can be a good remedy to such negative emotions.

One must not be possessive while at Love.
Being Possessive means forcing and dictating someone to achieve any objective.
Love is freedom to achieve noble objective with peace and compassion.
And freedom is meaningful and respectable only while achieving an noble objective.
True Love can be satisfying and a real enjoyment only when performed with gratitude and willingness.
Love is in different forms. Creating different forms of relationships.
Love can be associated with various emotions, like affection, compassion, passion, lust, ambition, brotherhood, etc. Love can as well be used as a powerful weapon also.
Love is thus meaningful only while it has a constructive noble objective. If not it becomes manipulative, selfish, destructive and corrupt.
While love is to give, and as well to receive, with gratitude and respect.
Thus, Love is a sacred Divine blessing, to add strength, courage and wisdom, to accomplish our noble objective.

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