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Saturday, June 3, 2017

Joy of marriage


Marriage becomes a joy between two good friends, who are connected with gentleness, caring, compassion, loyalty and truth. 

But it can also be a pain when they have ego and anger, they become stubborn and possessive.

Marriage is to fulfill human needs.

Marriages are not made in heaven. 

Marriage is official legal arrangement to live life.

Marriage helps to take care of physical body needs.

Spirituality is getting inward
but its better to walk together with a nice good friend on the spiritual journey.

Link to YouTube.
Is Marriage a Hindrance on the Spiritual Path?

Link to YouTube.

Marriage for humanity and personal needs.

Marriage is nice with a good friend.

Is Marriage a Hindrance on the Spiritual Path. Explained by Sadhguru.

Marriage is not a commodity that you carry on your head.

But many people carry it on their head. 

It's just an arrangement, so that socially there is some sense to the way you fulfill the needs that you have. 

A human being has needs – 
physical, psychological, emotional, financial, social, various kinds  of needs. 

Just to fulfill these things in a dignified manner, we came up with something called marriage.
so that it is fulfilled within a framework. 
Your desires don't run wild and disturb everything in the society.

Some kind of a framework, so that it can be conducted in a sensible manner.  

Now, you have raised this to heaven, because somebody told you marriages are made in heaven. 

Only the unmarried ones think so. 
So it's just two people, all right? 

Now, spiritual process is about turning inward.

Can I turn inward with somebody else? 

Marriage is an arrangement to fulfill certain aspect of your life.  Don't complicate life by thinking, we will walk together on the spiritual path, there's no such thing. 

Because spiritual path is not the path that you take into the Velliangiri mountains.
that you want to walk together. 
Even if you go to Velliangiri mountains, please don't walk hand in hand.

It's a narrow pathway and it's not an appropriate way to walk in the forest. 
You can walk in the park hand in hand. 
You can go shopping hand in hand. 
You can sit in a cinema hand in hand.

You can't turn inward hand in hand. 

someone  who was married means someone who's made an official arrangement for their needs in life.

a formal arrangement for simple needs that a human being has, which are biological.
which are psychological, which are social, many things. 

So these arrangements that you have made, conduct these arrangements gracefully.

So there will be time and space for you to turn around.  Now, if you pay excess attention to these arrangements, then turning around will not be possible. 

This does not mean if you're alone, you will do it. If you're alone, you may be always looking out. You spend your entire time and life looking out for somebody, that will also not help.  

Now, if you think your desires, your longings and your needs can be well-handled by an arrangement of marriage, all right, don't try to raise it to heaven. 

It doesn't happen in heaven, believe me. 

And if heaven is making so many mistakes, then we'll have to seriously reconsider many things.  

So, of course, in India, we don't blame it on the heaven. We do our own calculations of all the arrangements of stars and planets and everything. 

We match all the planets and stars very well. It's very easy to match stars because they never fought ever.

But to match these two people, that nobody has managed. except those two people if they are sensible.

If they are sensible, they can manage it. Nobody else can match these two people.  

Priests have tried, gods have tried, ghosts and goblins have tried.

It's not worked.

Two sensible people, they can manage.

If both of them understand the limitations of the arrangement and the possibilities of the arrangement. they can conduct it sensibly. 

If you try to raise it to heaven, you will see it will for sure crash.  

So your marriage has nothing to do with your spiritual process, because your spiritual process is an inward journey. 

But one dimension of this is, to walk alone people falter. 

Actually this question was asked to Gautama the Buddha.

Is it better to walk alone or in company? 

Gautama looked and said.
it's better to walk alone than to walk with a fool.  

Because Gautama believes only a fool will marry you. 
It's him, not me.

Link to YouTube.
Is Marriage Necessary?

Sadhguru.  Power of silence in relationship is practicing patience. Disconnection from negative emotional vibrations.  This process provides healing towards positivity.  Art of crating balance and harmony of vibrations. 

Marriage. Scientific Reason.
http://goo.gl/72zuee

Happily Married Good Friends.

Link to this article.
Joy of marriage.











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Sunday, May 14, 2017

973 Relationships with Divine Angels 😇

I think, We meet different types of people in our lives , they are like divine angels. Our interaction behaviour changes depending upon the individual person or group of people.

With a conviction as different individuals, respecting our differences, and appreciating our similarities. For the reasonable sense of unity in diversity.

We are all different but. The binding strength between us is the power of peaceful harmony, fraternity of brotherhood, compassion of kindness and healing.

United together like different colors of the rainbow. 
And different pearls of the same ocean. 
And different flowers of the same garden. 
Living together in a peaceful society. To contribute create a better mankind.

In all the human relationships what really matters is gentleness, compassion, loyalty and respect.

Without which the blood relationship too has no healing. Thus every type of relationship becomes a healing only with gentle compassion.

Relationships are not made of blood.

They are made of emotions (or feelings).

If there is a feeling, only then there is a relationship.

Otherwise there is no relationship.


I pray to the divine angels to connect us together with the bond of brotherhood, gentleness, caring, compassion, loyalty, truth, peace and wisdom.

These different types of people we meet in our lives , are like divine angels. They knock at our "doors of heart" in various different colors.
sometimes as brother or sister. 
as mother or father,
as companion or friend.

Wisdom is to properly define the relationship. To constructively establish peaceful happiness. Our actions can be either silence, or words, or emotions, or different expressions. Depending upon the situation.

What really matters is gentleness, compassion, loyalty and truth. Emotions and feelings. Without which the relationship has no meaning.

We all want to be happy. Being happy is important in life. Calmness within creates healing resulting in happiness. Human being is a social animal living in societies. Thus we all need good people arround us. We all need calmness and peace. People who are gentle, kind, caring, helpful, humble and loyal, are truthful and honest. Those who are not greedy and wicked create a transparent peaceful society. 

Read more articles.

Advocate Kunal Sharma, has betrayed me with false promises.






On one hand, justice system is critical for a better nation. Providing law and order to citizens. It's important for citizens to be patriotic, to be caring, helpful and kind to others. With a commitment and passion to provide justice. At the same time there are people who are misusing the power of law, to manipulate with the justice system. Recently I was betrayed by an advocate, who is supposed to provide justice to others by profession.

Advocate Mr Kunal Sharma has betrayed me. This person who is supposed to provide justice is doing injustice himself. Such people are a curse to this great nation.
Read more here.

Advocate Kunal Sharma, has betrayed me with false promises.

Money is not everything in life.

Proof, evidence of justice.

https://bit.ly/3xlrUKp


Enjoying good life.

Education without purpose.

Education verses Meditation.

Justice of Krishna in Mahabharata.





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Qualities of a humble soul.

When you hurt someone with a pure heart.

They may not fight back or seek revenge.

But instead will carry the pain silently and slowly distance themselves. 

They will likely remain kind.

But their trust in you will be broken, 
and they will "walk away" from the relationship.

Leaving a quiet and significant absence. 

This kind of person is described as being without malice, treachery, or evil intent.
Honest, sincere, and guileless.

Quiet withdrawal: 
Instead of a dramatic confrontation, they will quietly carry the pain within them.

Loss of trust: 
Their trust in you is often irrevocably broken.
Even if their outward demeanor remains warm.

Silent departure: 
They will slowly drift away from you without a trace.
And their absence will speak louder than any words could.

Inner change: 
Something fundamental changes for them on the inside.
And they may come to a quiet acceptance of reality that leads to their departure.



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Emotion of love within oneself provides healing. 

It's wrong to expect somebody else must create sweetness of emotions or happiness within you.
 

Sometimes human relationships will not work.

Not necessarily between a man and woman. This and that. 

Even between brothers it will not work.
Between sisters it will not work.
Between parents and children it will not work.
Between friends it will not work. 

Is it not true?
In so many ways, it doesn't work. 

But now when you have this unrealistic idea that somebody else should create sweetness of emotion within you. 

Then you will definitely torture that person.

Definitely that person will be missing tomorrow morning. 

So this must be understood. 

Love is your prerogative. 
You must be loving.

Who is here? Who is not here? 
What does it matter? 

Your emotions being sweet is very vital for the blossoming of the individual that you are. 

If you want to grow in your intelligence.
And in your capability.
Then you must be loving.



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Different types of relationships 


Physical contact is not the only way to establish relationship.

Intellectually and emotionally you can have relationships.

Emotional relationships are always far more touching in our life.
More tender than body-based relationships.

When we say a relationship, it could be many things. 

It could be with our parents, or with our siblings, or with our friends.

There's a relationship between guru and the disciple. 
Variety of relationships.

Body is not the only way to establish relationship. 

Bodies can only have encounters, not relationships. 

It takes a mind and emotion to have a relationship.

It is very powerful to invest emotions in something.

Life becomes powerful and meaningful to exist.



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Difference between. 
Devote and deceit.
Devotee and deceiving person. 


You look towards somebody only when you need them.

Otherwise you ignore them. 

Now, that is a very abusive relationship. 

The difference between a devotee and a deceitful person is just this. 

A devotee is focused towards one thing, irrespective of what the situation is. 

Deceptive person only looks at it that way when he needs it.



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Loving other person for 100 percent is not possible. Loving relationship is not possible 100 percent. 

Love is a feeling of emotion for healing oneself. Love cannot be in relationship. Expecting love from others is not possible.  Love can be expericed within oneself. Emotion of healing. 

sadhguru.archives

Everything you feel – love, hate, or anything else – happens inside you. 

So, love isn’t really about another person. 

When your emotions feel nice, that’s what we call love. 

If you become a loving person, it’s a beautiful way to be. 

If someone is there, you can share it. If not, you can still enjoy it.

 Sadhguru








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